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My thoughts on Gemini season; the ways this energy can influence you, especially if you have Gemini placements; and the beauty of duality. Duality. It’s my favorite thing. Being everything all at once. If you know me IRL, it is common to hear me say, “When the Gemini starts Gemini-ing, nobody’s safe.” I mean that. I often attribute the elements of my personality that are full of force, disruptive and willing to rub your face in it to me having a Gemini moon. The only thing th

If you corner any of my friends that I have had since childhood, they will likely tell you that I said the most reckless things when they first met me. Who am I kidding, if you ask anyone who has ever met me at any phase of my life, they will likely respond that way. I have always been decisive, expressive, and detached enough not to care how I am perceived. Pre-teen me modeled her entire personality around being just like Regina George — snarky, abrasive, manipulative, yet s

It’s no secret that I have been in a committed relationship for four years. My partner has aided my growth over the years, championed my goals and professional wins, is the goofy to my goober and just an all-around best friend to me. Though no relationship is free of challenge, merging our lives felt so seamless and organic that it became easy to fall into the inevitable “we”. Before we knew it, our lives became a shared calendar, complete with coinciding maintenance appointm

My thoughts on the Full Flower Moon in Scorpio, emotional recognition, and grounding yourself energetically If last week felt unbearable, I am here to let you know that you are not alone. On Friday, May 1st, we kicked off the month with a full moon in Scorpio and while it was labeled the “Full Flower Moon”, it felt anything but delicate. For those unfamiliar with the underlying energy of Scorpio moons, they are known for highlighting the things we keep hidden—even from oursel

I was recently asked my thoughts on building confidence. For the first time I was a bit nervous to admit something; there has not been a single day in my life where I lacked confidence. My mother often quips that I was born confident. While she is likely correct, I am sharing this without a trace of hubris. I cannot recall a time in my life that I felt as if I took up too much space or that it might be better for me to play it safely. Except, in this room full of vulnerable i

I have been preparing to be a thirty year old woman since I was at least seven (likely earlier). I did not always know what I wanted my future to look like but I knew one thing for sure--I wanted to be "grown". I arrived at this conclusion from watching my mother and the women she surrounded herself with. They always made adulthood look fun, easy and alluring. They dressed how they wanted and were always on trend, they ate at great restaurants, they went to popular events